Try walking

by Chad Jordan on July 31, 2009 to the LifeMatters blog

“What are you going to be when you grow up?”

That question had to be answered each fall as a new school year began. I guess the assumption was if we knew where we wanted to end up, then we had a better chance of doing things that would lead us in the right direction. That line of thinking sounds logical, but what if you can’t answer the first question? What if you don’t know or are afraid to choose the wrong path? That was me growing up, and at times still today.

Growing up in the church there was always talk of doing God’s will, finding God’s will, and living His will. We were all created for a purpose and our job as followers of Christ was to find that purpose and live it. As a youth, that all seemed like it was right, it made sense but it never settled right with me. It actually created a sense of fear and doubt in my life. I doubted my salvation through my teen years, many times in part because I didn’t know what He wanted me to do. How can I be a Christian if I don’t know what to do? Or what happens if I choose incorrectly? These were questions constantly banging around in my little head. If only Morgan Freeman would show up and lay things out as clearly as he did in Evan Almighty.

You see, that scene never happened to me and maybe it hasn’t for you either. It would be nice, I think, but better than that would be to rightly understand this thing called God’s will. Turns out it’s much simpler than I ever thought it would be.

In trying to understand and answer the question, “What does God want from me?”, you don’t have to dig too deep into His Word to find out. First Thessalonians 4:1-5 explains it much better than I ever could. God has a way of doing that—explaining things so we can understand. God explains it like this: “Walk with Me.” That’s it? What about what college I should go to, or how many children we should have, or who I should marry, or where I should work? All those questions are answered in that little phrase, “Walk with Me.”

This idea of walking with Christ is simple, but very complex. You see, He explains throughout the Bible what that looks like, but it flies against everything this world teaches us. This world teaches us to do what feels good and is ruled by an unquenchable appetite. You can never have enough or ever be fulfilled. Thankfully, God offers another way—walking with Him. So then our lives are lived pursuing Him rather than trying to fulfill our own desires. We trade the appearance of freedom for actual freedom. No longer slaves trying to always “feel good,” we get to live life in full freedom, walking with the Father. We go where He leads and He uses where we go. If you want to know where to start in the search for God’s will, begin with a walk and see what happens.

There have been 2 replies so far

Well said, Chad.

I just wrote my 18 year old daughter a letter this morning because I knew that she has been struggling with figuring out what to do now that she has graduated from high school. I remember the pressure to decide “what you’re going to be when you grow up.”

Here’s the bottom line I came to: who you are matters a whole lot more than what you do. Focus on who you are in Christ, how He has uniquely gifted you, how you can serve the body of Christ, and you will find God’s will for your life.

What am I going to be when I grow up? Our question should be WHO am I going to be when I grow up. Our prayer and goal should be to be ever growing in Christ.

1 | Sandy Duke

Saturday, August 1, 2009, at 12:20am

Sandy- That’s a good word. I hope you guys are doing well and holding down the West Coast.

2 | chad Jordan

Saturday, August 1, 2009, at 3:42pm

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