Looking for Wisdom

by Michael Kelley on May 27, 2008 to the LifeMatters blog

Maybe you’ve been there—sitting alone, asking God to speak to you, because you’ve got a decision to make. This decision would be easy if one of the options clearly violated the commands of God. Say for example, the decision in question was whether or not you should go to your small group or rob the convenience store down the street. Answer’s pretty obvious. But not this situation. In this instance, you’ve got to choose between two good things—this major or that one, this job or that one, this city or that one. And so you come to God, looking for wisdom.

Wisdom is a difficult concept for me to grasp. The truth is that when I pray for wisdom, I’m really asking for a burning bush, a message in my Alphabits cereal, or a song on the radio with the perfect lyrics. I don’t want wisdom, per sey, I want answers. But if you’ve sat in that position, wanting answers from God, you know it doesn’t work like that most of the time.

Wisdom is more ambiguous. It requires weighing options. It requires some amount of logic. But most of all, wisdom requires faith. Making a wise decision is a lot different than having certainty. That’s what you get as you read the Book of Proverbs.

You get a foundation for practical, every-day decisions. You don’t necessarily get the answers, but you do get principles that enable you to make decisions on your own. You get the framework inside of which you can operate confidently, and yet with uncertainty. And that brings us back to the key element of wisdom—faith.

Just like George Michael said, “You gotta have faith, a-faith, a-faith, ahhhh…” Chances are when you come to God asking for wisdom, you’re not going to get explicit answers. It makes sense in a way, because all throughout Scripture, God seems to value faith above most aspects in our lives. If He was in the business of giving out absolutely explicit answers, then why would we need to trust? Why would we need to rely on Him? Why would we need to develop that constant communion with Jesus? Instead we could just easily follow the scripted course God laid out for us.

But in the wisdom matrix, we must still trust. We must come to a fork in the road and say, “Based on the facts, I believe this is the right way to go. I believe …” And we choose. That’s what this study in Proverbs can do for you—not necessarily give you explicit answers, but provide the framework in which you can walk. In faith.

Let’s remember that during this season of LifeMatters, that God is working inside us to develop our faith. That’s truly wise.

About the Author

Michael lives in Nashville, Tennessee, with his wife, Jana, and kids, Joshua, Andi, and Christian. He grew up in Texas and earned a Master of Divinity at Beeson Divinity School in Birmingham, Alabama. He has written The Tough Sayings of Jesus Volumes I & II, travels throughout the year speaking to students and young adults, and blogs daily at michaelkelleyministries.com.

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Reading this reminded me of something my uncle once said. He’s a Southern Baptist preacher in South Texas, and he was once recounting advice given to him when he first began pastoring. He was concerned about where he was being led to minister, and a revered preacher friend of his told him, “I don’t think God’s as concerned with WHERE you preach as He is concerned THAT you preach.” Sometimes I get so caught up in the details that I forget about the most important, and often obvious, truths. Although God is interested in where and when and how, I think it’s more important to Him WHY, the motivations behind my actions. And, of course, that there IS action. After all, “faith without works is dead.”

1 | shoodaddy

Tuesday, May 27, 2008, at 4:28pm

So often, I want God to show me exactly what He wants me to do, but I agree with what you said … if He did give us the explicit answers, there wouldn’t be a need to trust Him and to be in constant communion with Him. I’m really looking forward to the study on Wisdom this coming month. It’ll be my first time going thru LifeMatters and I’m excited to see what God will do in the lives of the students/young adults at my church.

2 | Matt

Wednesday, May 28, 2008, at 2:28am

Thanks for your comments, guys - I resonate with what you’re saying. I have often wondered if our walk with God looks a little like the old Warner Brothers cartoon with the little dog and the big bulldog, us constantly looking up at our companion saying, “Where are we going!?!?!! Where are we going!?!?!?!?! Where are we going?!?!?!” Could it be that many times God is more interested in who we are becoming than where we are going? Just a thought.

3 | Michael Kelley

Wednesday, May 28, 2008, at 7:10am

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